The brutal deaths of Rob Reiner and his wife Michele, allegedly at the hands of their 32-year-old son Nick, tragically and dramatically brings the systemic failures of the current treatment practices and approaches for substance abuse, mental health and homelessness into stark relief. In a 2016 People Magazine article Nick stated that his first tripContinue reading “The System Failed the Reiner Family”
Author Archives: Vincent Lee Jones
4th Step inventory using The 4 Absolutes (Honesty, Unselfishness, Purity, and Love)
Based on a Simple (but not easy) step 4 guide by Father Bill W. (Recognized A.A./Oxford Group Historian sober since 1972) The 4th Step is not meant to be an in-depth psychoanalysis of ourselves; rather it is asking God to awaken us to seeing where our lives have been out of alignment with His willContinue reading “4th Step inventory using The 4 Absolutes (Honesty, Unselfishness, Purity, and Love)”
Stepping into the Unknown: Trust vs. Doubt
“When you have come to the edge of all you know and are about to step out into faith one of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.” Patrick Overton THE UNIVERSE (GOD) operates on FAITH, not fear. TRUSTING means stepping into theContinue reading “Stepping into the Unknown: Trust vs. Doubt”
Let Go and Let God
Part 4 “Someday surely we will see the principle underlying existence as so simple, so beautiful, so compelling that we will all say to each other, ‘How could we all have been so stupid for so long.” John Wheeler, Princeton University professor of physics from1938 to 1976. He worked on the Manhattan ProjectContinue reading “Let Go and Let God”
Believing in God is Delusional? Let Go and Let God Part 3
BUT, WHAT ABOUT: (After the Pink Cloud dissipates?) “The wars which had been fought, the burnings and chicanery that religious dispute had facilitated, made me sick. I honestly doubted whether, on balance, the religions of mankind had done any good. Judging from what I had seen in Europe and since, the power of God inContinue reading “Believing in God is Delusional? Let Go and Let God Part 3”
Let Go and Let God Part 2
When we are in the grip of addiction, we are both the abused and the abuser for… “we invariably find that at some time in the past we have made decisions based on (in) self which later placed us in a position to be hurt.” BB pg.62 Invariably: on every occasion: always. “The devil’s voiceContinue reading “Let Go and Let God Part 2”
Let Go and Let God Part 1
A maid said to her mistress: “I notice that when you sit, you sit tight. You are all screwed up and tight on the inside. Now look at me. When I work, I work hard; but when I sit, I sit loose.” There was a real philosophy of life in that statement. WhenContinue reading “Let Go and Let God Part 1”
Autism, Addiction and Me
I was born in 1955. Way back then there were basically 3 types of “kids”: just the regular let’s play hide-an-seek, build a fort, throw rocks, ride bikes, ring doorbells and run, make random calls and ask if “Ben Dover” was home (caller ID ruined that), get muddy, mercurochromed bloody knees and elbows, beContinue reading “Autism, Addiction and Me”
When You Change The Way You Look At Things….
Freedom from addiction is not, and has never been one size fits all. Today more resources and paths of treatment and recovery are available than ever before yet decades of bitter experience has clearly demonstrated though that whether it is classic 12 Step recovery, CBT, DBT, EMDR, Smart Recovery, Celebrate Recovery, etc. without engagement inContinue reading “When You Change The Way You Look At Things….”
Autism, Addiction and Me
“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”